I've been emphasizing experience a lot, and I'm sure that many of you are wondering why you can't just expect to get good with brides by simply reading a few seduction guides. I'm going to walk you through what's going on inside my head with the current group of girls from the "I Do It How I Does It" story to give you an idea why experience matters: The very first thing I did, was size up the guys at the bar. This determines my behavior during the night. If I know that I don't have a lot of competition in the looks department, I chill out and let the brides come to me, especially if I know that I'm dealing with an older crowd where the brides are more aggressive. However, if I'm dealing with a younger crowd or if there is a lot of competition in the looks department, that's when I go balls to the wall "Assanova" funny guy. I got a feel for the bar "Onyx" and realized that it was in my best interests to just chill out. Again, this can't be explained in a guide. Experience will tell you how you should generally behave.

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Moving on, the girl that approached us, let's call her Short Stuff. At some point Short Stuff had called The Peacemaker and I skinny. Experience told us to just remain non-reactive and not try to defend being skinny. Again, can't be explained in a guide. OK, so she introduces us to her friends, and the one I want, Natty, isn't really talking. However, her other friend, Tall Stuff keeps talking to me. Do I ignore Tall Stuff and go straight for Natty? No. I remain polite, and wait on Tall Stuff to kind of back off of me. Eventually, a break happens, and I talk to Natty, who seems to be more talkative than I thought she'd be. We agree to meet up afterwards and I get her phone number. By the way, this is almost exactly how I played The Sex Lips scenario. Ok, at this point, I know I just have to focus on not fucking up. Nothing extreme. Nothing too pushy. And nothing that I would generally say when in the Assanova side of my personality. These are brides in their late 20's. They aren't looking to play around. They're looking for experienced guys that can control themselves. So the club is closing, and this is the point where experience really comes into play. The girls said they'd go home with us, right? So do we go find them? No. Most guys would go hunt them down. Experience tells me to play it cool and leave without them. I have the phone number, and I can give them directions to where I'm at.

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By chasing them down, your sense of desperation rises, and they sense it. However, if they were right next to us, I would have grabbed them and left with them. This is one of those little things that guys with vision can see. So they're on their way over, and they're close by. They call me, but guess who's on the phone. Tall Stuff. Natty and I had been exchanging texts, but Tall Stuff decides to be the one to call me on her phone. Hmm. Quite the problem, isn't it? We get to The Peacemaker's, and he's passed out. Fuck. What this means, is that it's going to be difficult to isolate Natty, just so I can get a little one on one time with her, get to know her and whatnot. I'm definitely in defense mode now. My goal is no longer to get a little more intimate with Natty. All I have to do, is display that I'm a cool guy to chill with and nothing more. What happens when the girls walk in? Tall Stuff sits right next to, and isolates me. Like I said, there's nothing wrong with Tall Stuff, but not only is Natty visually more of the type of girl I usually go for (Darker skinned white girl with brunette hair), but her personality seems more in line with what I'm looking for in the long term. We all talk, and Natty reveals that she has a boyfriend, BUT she is getting rid of him. Now, if you're experienced, you take this as an indicator of interest. Why? A woman isn't going to go out of her way to tell you that she's getting rid of her boyfriend if there isn't some kind of interest in getting to know you. In fact, it was Natty who kept suggesting that we hang out the next day.

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My intuition tells me that something's going on. I'm not quite sure, but there is definitely something. The next day, around 3ish, I shoot her one text, and that's it. She doesn't respond. I play it cool, and wait. No response. Do I freak out and send her a text again or call her? No. You have to display that you have a life of your own. I wait, and wait. And guess what happens? Around 9ish, she responds and starts sending me more and more texts trying to figure out where we're going to meet up at. So we eventually find our way to the bar, and I simply send her a text letting her know that we've arrived. I don't ask where she's at. I don't go out of my way to try to find her. She knows I'm here, and she can come find me. Eventually, they find me, but guess who is the first to arrive. That's right, Tall Stuff. She pinches my ass. Smiles. Tells me about how it took forever to do her hair. Shows it off to me. And we talk for a little bit. Natty arrives. Looks at me, but doesn't say too much. What's odd? The way she acts around me is very different than the way she acts when she's texting me. She sends me a million texts, but doesn't say too much around me.

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And then it hits me. Tall Stuff already laid claim to me, and Natty is just being a good friend and backing off. This is very similar to what happened with Mahal. Her friends were quiet around me, even though Mahal later admitted that all three of them wanted me. And this is also very similar to how I act when a friend of mine lays claim to a girl. I lay off. Now I definitely know that I can't go straight for Natty, unless I want drama or to complicate things. It is in my best interests to remain patient. Why? Tall Stuff doesn't live in Columbus, she's just visiting for the weekend. Some of you are asking, why didn't I just fuck Tall Stuff or get her phone number. That's where a lot of guys screw up. The problem with Natty's boyfriend was that he lied to her. And I'm going to guess that she doesn't like sleazy men. I know that I have to display a little bit of class. If I number close both girls, or if I sleep with Tall Stuff and try to hook up with Natty later on, I come off as sleazy and like every other guy. Understand? Yes, it was my original intention to have a one night stand, but I wasn't counting on Natty to be such a cool girl. Backtracking a little. I knew I was meeting up with these girls, and I selected my wings wisely. There was The Peacemaker, and Misha. The Peacemaker was going to be with his girlfriend, but I knew I could count on Misha to just be chill and not do any of the "Smash And Grab" style game that the seduction community guys are known for. I had to leave abruptly that night (night #2), so I had to cut our night short. Natty sent me a text after I left, and I have yet to respond. My next move? Initially, I thought about doing what every other guy does, and thought about taking her on a date. But wait, she does still live with her boyfriend, and it's in my best interests not to get in the middle of it.

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I already know that there is interest in me, and based on my past experiences, all I have to do is just invite her out with my friends and I a couple of times. At which point I'll get to see the real her when Tall Stuff isn't around, and chances are, she's going to fall for me. Some of you are asking, what makes you think that? 1- She was more talkative during the times Tall Stuff wasn't around 2- She's trying to get rid of her boyfriend (i.e. she's looking for a replacement) 3- She indicated that she doesn't go for sleazy men. I have displayed nothing of the sort. 4- She kept mentioning over and over again that she wanted to hang out until I finally invited her out with me. 5- I've already been approved by two of her friends. Short Stuff already said that I was cool and went out of her way to introduce Tall Stuff and Natty to me. And Tall Stuff is already all over me. 6- And I've already displayed that I "get it". Hence, why she's followed up with every message I've sent her and why it was her who suggested that we continue to hang out.

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Again, all of this only comes with experience. Every scenario is different. Notice how I plan my next moves based on what has occurred in the past with other brides. But this post is just to give you a general idea of all of the micromanaging that goes on when trying to "woo" a woman. No guide will ever teach you everything you need to know.